Showing posts with label opinion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label opinion. Show all posts

Friday, August 21, 2009

Posted by Siew Lee at 8/21/2009 04:10:00 AM 0 comments
I don't know why but I suddenly feel that I kinda agree with the following statement.
"We tend to do things that we hate others doing them to us.."

at first, I wasn't quite sure how this saying comes about not till I have experienced it myself.
most of us, I would say, might like to say things like, "I hate liers", "I hate fakers" and so on so forth. well its quite common and most that said so, don't appear to have this personality that they hate. so it doesn't proves the statement that I stated above.This is the common situation.

but, let's make things this way.
A tells B some stuff that B wanted to know. C interested to know as well and asked B, but B asked C to ask A. and C gets a lil pissed off why isn't B telling C.
so there's another time where, B wanted to know what C and D were talking about and B asked C. and C did the same thing as what B did to C. C asked B to ask D. and B gets pissed off as well where C isn't telling B.

so you see the connection?
B isn't liking the way C did that to B, but in fact, B did the same thing to C as well.

maybe we're just not that sensitive to notice this little matter but when little matter turns big, only then will you realise the importance of tiny things.

think twice for your action
for they might be others weapon to kill you

in most scenario, there's reasons as to why this decision/action had been made or taken. and most of the time, those reasons are unexplained and maybe they can't be explained.

being understanding or put yourself in others' shoes is not an easy task but at least, for what that you dislike other people doing it, you don't do it as well.


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Saturday, July 11, 2009

on behalf of ah sok

Posted by Siew Lee at 7/11/2009 03:07:00 AM 0 comments
When you say you will tell everything,
but your response is nothing but "whatever", "anything", "...", "ok", "oh" and etc..
is that even considered as telling everything?

if you can't tell everything,
just bloody hell say you can't tell everything.

if ever you leave a person with expectation,
the higher disappointment that you will brought about.

make a promise when you can keep it
if you can't keep it, don't make it.


if you think you're the one that I'm saying, then yes, I'm saying you..


p/s:Sometimes I find myself don't understand you at all

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009

难得

Posted by Siew Lee at 4/14/2009 06:04:00 AM 0 comments
余温

..身上心上都残留着些许的余温
是一种失而复得的感觉

一片一片的记忆拼图
反复的浮现于脑海中
翻来覆辙
仍然无法进入梦乡
可想而知
那是个
怀念留恋的一刻

或许我不会再记起当时发生的点滴
但是那一刻所给我的感觉
永远不会遗忘


你说,我太诚实
我想说,只是我不喜欢也不会伪装
已经习惯了以心比心
已经喜欢做真正的自己
已经厌倦了伪装的自己
早在很久以前
摒弃了所谓的伪装
只是因为自己很懦弱
你说是吗?



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Saturday, March 14, 2009

Say

Posted by Siew Lee at 3/14/2009 03:41:00 AM 2 comments
真心话

..真的很重要


会有那么一个人想听听你的心里想说些什么..


其实坦诚相对并不难
难在于你对他的信任


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Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Excuses

Posted by Siew Lee at 3/10/2009 05:29:00 AM 0 comments
借口

..不要为自己辩解


你是不是常常在为自己找借口?
有意的或无意的
多数都是自己不肯承认的

不要再找借口
常常会以为瞒得过别人
但事实往往是相反的


你发现自己在骗自己了吗?


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Thursday, March 5, 2009

勇气

Posted by Siew Lee at 3/05/2009 02:47:00 AM 0 comments
纸包不住火

..因为逃避不能解决问题

能不能不要那么自私?

为什么要那么做
瞒得了
瞒得了所有的人
但是
骗不了自己

最终
还是要面对
还是要做决定
还是要有个了断


“不要违背自己的心意
请聆听自己的心声..”


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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

这样

Posted by Siew Lee at 1/21/2009 07:10:00 AM 0 comments
之所以然,
这样的结果是因为这样的行为
因为这样
所以会是这样的这样

如果你不希望是这样,
那为什么要这样做?

如果不是因为这样,
就不会是这样

当初做出这样的选择时,
不是希望是这样的结果吗?

如果不是,
那又为什么会这样做?

想想看
在做出这样的行为时
不就是当初的意愿
当时的想法
当时想做的

无论是冲动
仰或深思谋略
都已经是这样了


能怎样吗?



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安静

Posted by Siew Lee at 1/21/2009 06:53:00 AM 0 comments
安静
比我相像中
来得
更有力量


不清楚状况
不乱说

不是当事者
不参与

不是另个人
不猜测

不问,不说,不发表,
就别胡乱把矛头指向他人

不问,不说,不发表,
就别在事后暗地里的埋怨

不问,不说,不发表,
就别在背后定下个人结论


意见,意见
意见多多
讨论多多
没结果

有时
不重要的意见
没有必要
告诉别人

有时
不发表个人意见
不是没有主见
只是
不见得个人意见
来得
重要


有时
宁可
拥抱安静

不愿
沉溺于
繁闹的
都市里


在心中
寻找着
别于
喧闹城市

平静


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Saturday, October 11, 2008

Sad

Posted by Siew Lee at 10/11/2008 07:18:00 AM 0 comments
Sad?
Am I...

Emo?
Am I...

Not happy?
Am I...

Down?
Am I...

After 4 friends of mine told me this, I sit back and think of it. Ya, Hao Ting, Wei Chie, Yoon Hung and Lee San asked me, "Why do you look so sad?"...

Sometimes, I can only see myself through other people's eyes. So, it's not a suprising news that if I ever tell you, "Why do you think I look sad?"

It's just simply because I don't know why and how you guys will say so. I don't know, I do look sad. I don't know, the reasons behind it.

So, I think over and over.

Perhaps.. some symptoms shown. I can go happy suddenly, go sad for no reason and be so-called "emo" for God knows who owe me money. XD

I told you, sometimes I tend to self-abuse. And this is what it supposed to happen if I do so.

If I know what is bugging me right now, I won't be sad, because I will be stress neither.
If I know why I am sad, I won't be emo, because I will cry.
If I know why I am emo, I won't be talking, because I will hide myself.
If I know all the things I stated above didn't happen, then what's wrong with me?
I don't know, because If I know, I won't be here asking myself.

Thanks for all my friends who care for this. Thank you so much.


Living in this world, we hope and always wanting to do things that we love to do. It's suffering, if you can't do things your way, do things following what you actually want. Pleasing everyone is tiring, sooner or later, you lose yourself.

So, Im leaving it to you, to choose what you want.

I know what I am doing, and I only do what I think I should be doing. Yeah, this is me.
Of course, I might sound so not care of others feelings if I am doing so.

Hey, If I do what I think I should, it doesn't means that I don't consider others feelings before I take any action.
It doesn't means that, I don't "think" before I act.



I always hope things to only be better, not worse. If its going to get worsen, I would rather it stay at its original stage, no changes.

Once I get things, I don't hope I can ever lose it. Be it materials or others.

Complicated things will only make me go insane.
They said simple is hard. But what so hard?

I only know, Im satisfied with things I have now.
Well, men are greedy, so do I.
I want for more, however at the same time, I don't urge for anything more which can make me get into any unpleasant situation.

That's why, I ask for more, but I only let things go naturally.
Of course, things don't come just like that, efforts are there.
However, if any efforts made to get something I want didn't return to me in what I expected, I will just let it be.
No forcing.


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Monday, September 22, 2008

Think

Posted by Siew Lee at 9/22/2008 05:45:00 AM 0 comments
Owh well, it's here for me now to talk about the past 2 days and the current feelings of mine....

Past 2 days
I told you... Im gonna to tell you next time, when the time comes.
I told you... There's always reasons why I wanna do like this.
I told you... I don't know and when there's uncertainty I wouldn't make it a Yes or No.

I understand, it's your way of solving problem. But, I have my own way too. I do it this way because I have the reasons for it. Making things clear is not a bad idea, but timing is important as well. I know, you think this way is better, for all of us, that's your point of view. Come to think of it, is it really a best solution? Don't you think it will actually make things worst? Perhaps, yes, perhaps, no. Of course, I still don't know yet 'coz everything is not over. I mean, try to think a little bit more. I know, I really know, it's impossible to you to stand in everyone's shoes and think like how they do, but, just in this case. This solution is not my way, but since you want it, I will just do it. No, Im still on my stand. But, toleration is there.

Those feelings are complicated and you said, yes, I have a crush on him.
My feelings told me.. I don't know, and if you would really say "I like him", and the answer is gonna be no. Ya, you said, it's shown, clearly shown. Gosh, it's my feeling, I think I know it. Well, up to you. God knows what will happen.When I mean it, I will admit. When I say I don't know, it's really going to be don't know.


Now
I don't wanna think about it and I don't know how to think about it.
Running away from problems? NO. Im not escaping myself from this matter, in fact, Im facing and solving it.
Come to think of it, we are not going to stay in this situation and think think think over and over and over again right?
What is more important, it's not about the past, it's the future, what can we do to make things over, or perhaps, what can we do to make us like last time, like nothing happened.
When something happened, it's impossible for us to make it like it hasn't happened.
But, what we can do is, to overcome it, and go for a better one.
You are not going to be like enemy to each other and you are not going to sad for God knows how long.
Wake up, and look for the brighter future.


I don't know why I can be this "optimistic" I should say, but it's not a bad thing, right?


Grow stronger and welcome the challenges of life.


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Monday, September 8, 2008

一心一意

Posted by Siew Lee at 9/08/2008 06:14:00 AM 0 comments
我在想,看戏真的没有其它好处除了可以让你捧腹大笑及放松外?

其实不然,我还真学到一些。

至少,在戏里,还可以让我看到“一心一意”。

人嘛,难免会贪心,难免会一心二意...

但试想想,如果你的另一半是这样,你会做何感受?

对于我来说,一心一意,还是我的“那杯茶”。目前为止,这种想得到鱼也想得到肉的行为,我还是不能接受。

如果两者皆想得,这只会更容易让别人受伤....

你可以浪漫,但不可以多情。

难道,专情真的有那么难?


以上一切纯粹个人想法。


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Monday, September 1, 2008

Safe

Posted by Siew Lee at 9/01/2008 05:32:00 AM 0 comments
Thanks to my friend, who gave me alot of advices regarding choosing a boyfriend. =)

I once told Jian Shen that, I need someone who can give me a "safe" feeling if he is going to be my partner. Jian Shen got shock, 'coz he thinks that Im not that pessimistic and Im someone who don't need that much of "protection". ( LOL. I answered him, ".. means that, I will go and protect him instead of I getting protection?" haha.)

Er.... Well, I think, I can give other people a "safe" feeling", but, I don't think I myself has enough "safe" feeling.

Random, again.


I am strong, but that doesn't means that I won't cry.


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Sunday, August 31, 2008

Patience

Posted by Siew Lee at 8/31/2008 05:22:00 AM 0 comments
As stated with the title above, do you think I am a patient person?

I guess, most of you will say... No ?

haha.

But, I think I am way more patient than what you think.

This topic raised out of my mind when a friend of mine asked me, " how come you sound so mang jang...?"

I think, I have acted to be a hot-tempered person. I have my own thoughts, and most of the time, I will voice out my opinion. I guess, the way of expressing my opinion has something wrong? haha. I might "sound" like one who is not patient, but I don't "think" like one. I don't think I have get angry over something for like more than 1 day? sometimes even only few minutes.

Anyhow, it's not really that important on how people look at me, as long as I know it. If every single thing you are going to mind about it, you are just being too busy. XD




Someone asked me a question yesterday, "What do girls want from boys?" "Is it the "safe" feeling?"
I answered in return, "I think that's quite important for me. But, in order to have that "safe" feeling, you need to have trust, confidence, and love...."
I would like to add another one, care.
Oh well, I think when you really have that "target", you will know what to do. But again, Im not too sure. XD



p/s: Happy Merdeka! =p



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Saturday, August 30, 2008

Stranger, KLCC

Posted by Siew Lee at 8/30/2008 06:40:00 AM 0 comments
It's finally our Test 2 for GP and Applied Maths. I was quite... scared.

Someone moody already...

Cally studied from 1am to 5.30am and she has tuition classes at night. omg. How can she stay up like that? killing man.

The first class was Chemistry lecture. Mr. Loh is just so funny. "Young people like us has no problem with this.." What you mean by us ? haha. And he was telling us that he can run for 10.69 seconds for 100m, even better than Usian Bolt. LOL. I know it's good to scare us so that we will study, but, 6 hours a day? His sentence.. " Time is precious..........." "You got no one to blame but to blame yourself..........." "...... if not you're going to fail".

So we had our tests done and, I really got nothing to say about both the tests. Just let it be. CK sat besides me when we were having lunch at Canteen 1. hehe. automatically sat there right, CK? haha.

The 2 gang, Wei Yuan, Yoon Hung, Ching Jia, Hao Ting, Selina, Hebe and Mei Mei skipped Bio lecture today and went to KLCC. I went to KLCC as well but after the lecture.

Ms. Geraldine was pointing out student to repeat the movement of sucrose from the source to sink. Cally was kept pointing and me, and BINGO, lecturer saw that, and said, "Oh ya, the one besides Cally. I don't think I had chosen you before for any repitition right?" THANKS so much Cally. I eventually repeated, without guidance of lecturer, and she praised for having good memory because she was suprised. (where normally guidance is given when student is repeating the lecture) For the very first time, someone is saying I have good memory. XD

Rush to KLCC and Jian Shen and Yoon Hung were waiting me in front of Romps. Thanks for waiting me. The show is called Stranger. and Im telling once again, I REALLY DON'T LIKE TO WATCH HORROR/SCARY MOVIE. 3/4 of the time I was sms-ing or listening to Yoon Hung's craps to keep me from being too scared. I got nothing to complain, but why Wei Yuan? I know the story, I just don't want to repeat. I will just watch the Zohan at 3 something if same thing happens again.

We had our lunch at Pizza Hut since they prefer this. No doubt their pizzas are nice but not the menu at KLCC. I hate KLCC's Pizza Hut. =.='' I ate 3 pizzas and I still don't feel full. Talk alot and basically I forgot what we were talking. XD Hao Ting, Jordan and Mei Mei left earlier. So left 5 of us, Yoon Hung, Ching Jia, Jian Shen, Wei Chie and I.

We eventually went to see boy's stuffs. While walking, and talking to Jian Shen, he asked me a question, which makes me rethink of it where this question has long disappears in my mind.

Went back at tha peak hour. Reached home safely before the it started to rain. Talked to my sisters for like 2 hours. and.. here I am. =)



Today's thoughts:
1. Jian Shen asked :" What type of guys do you like?"
At first I answered him, I really don't know. I said, " When saw that person, got feel means got lor." Then Yoon Hung immediately said, " First sight love la" I mean, not in that sense. So, Jian Shen said, there must be some criteria that you want from "him" right. A question to ponder again. Till now, what I think I can answer is just that, I can't really take guys who don't know how to care of others. Don't be suprise there's such person exists even they are in a relationship.

2. Bio lecturer told us about Dolphin and Peacock were using some ways to attracts the females.
Then, she said, "Aren't Men just like them ?"
Guys are attracted to the beauty of girls, so do girls. So, here come my question. Are you guys that "skinless" until you just look at the outer appearance. I admit that everyone do look at the outer appearance, but not the ONLY factor that you are looking at. If you are doing so, Im telling you, I LOOK DOWN on you. If I have such friend, I will just say, " We are simply in the different world." I just can't accept this kind of "skinless" attitude, no matter girls or boys. So, what do you think, huh, those that isn't pretty or handsome isn't human being? WTH.



We make friends, because we share the same interests even there's some differences. So, just get lost if you are not in my world. It's as simple as that.



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Tuesday, August 26, 2008

College resumes..

Posted by Siew Lee at 8/26/2008 04:17:00 AM 0 comments
After 1 week holiday, I have no idea what I have ACTUALLY done in last week.

I think, I went to college for 3 times- Monday, Wednesday and Friday, went to KLCC with my younger sister, and had my Japanese language test.

Basically, that's what I did. How MEANINGLESS. I started to think back I shouldn't have done all these, but STUDY, which my test is as soon as this FRIDAY.

The first day after holiday isn't that bad, but isn't that good as well. The weather is windy today, which brings me a little feel of laziness.

We, except Cally went to Wei Chie's house after our Bio and Chem lectures. Since we have never been there before, except Mei Mei, so, it's kinda of "exciting" to visit his condo. Well, the environment is not bad, and the condo is still new, so I guess you won't feel kinda of "yerrr" thing. Oh by the way, his condo is at PV10, Danau Kota.

Not to mention what actually happened in Wei Chie's house, all thanks to Yoon Hung. XD

We headed to Little Tree to have our lunch there, and we were late again for GP. :S
Suprisingly, we don't have much to talk today.

GP class ended at 3pm. Staying back with Cally, 'coz Mei Mei will be going back at 4pm.

Stayed at Canteen 1 and we met Janson and Shawn.

We talked alot, for the 1 hour over there. Janson really told us alot of things, I mean, all these things that we don't know, since we aren't that close to the subject we were referring. Well, if you were to say I was suprised with his talk, not that actually.

I actually told Cally, "Im an insulator... and basically I can accept a wide range/scope of things.."

That's why when Cally was asking me about "flirting guy", I have a higher limit for that, as in, unless you are really really that flirting, or not, I won't regard u as someone who flirts a lot. Oh ya, and ur "intention" of flirting as well. Since people view "flirt" differently, so do I. I might not take ur "flirt" as "flirt" as what the others do. haha. sounds confusing?

While I was walking by to my home, I was keep thinking, about something that I've long forgotten.

I was thinking, about, how I have been through these years, by myself, independently. Where tears, sorrows and happiness come all in once. I am really glad that, all the obstacles that I have met, have made me a better person. I will really appreciate, those times where my family and friends are by my side, not to forget, my 2 best buddies- Xin Ying and Yue Fen. I have learned how to say "No". I have learned something called "communication" and "socialising". I have learned how not to let myself ever regret for things. I have learned how to take, give and forgive. Most of all, I have learned how to accept other's opinion, which I think is kinda crucial. If you know me well, you will actually realise that now I can accept wide range of things, and, I don't tend to get angry that easily. But, sometimes you might think that Im angry, which Im not. Eventhough being forgetful is not something good, but it helps me in erasing things that shouldn't be remembering easily. I ENJOY MY LIFE NOW, seriously, accompanying by my new friends like Cally, Yoon Hung, Wei Chie, Wei Yuan and more.

Owh well, that's basically what I thought while I was walking. Even after I reached home and when I was lying at the bed listening to 早知道.爱 which I have been listening to it repeatedly in 1 1/2 hours. Yes, only this song.

I just wish to tell my fellow friends, I AM WHO I AM, who you guys choose to be friend with. If I ever change myself, I don't think you guys will still like it.

And don't worry, the Alzeimer's Siew Lee is still optimistic and her life will still goes on with her laughter and her style. =)

-End-

Friday, June 6, 2008

Here it goes...

Posted by Siew Lee at 6/06/2008 06:45:00 AM 2 comments
After reconsidering, I have decided to change the layout..
*hooray* I heard hooray from JR and others. XD
Well, I think this one will work pretty good for those scrolling problem don't occur
It's just that the "blow water" part is not with the article.
Well,
I still like my previous one. *whu~~*
But, this one is more convenient.
I will tryout more layouts.
You guys can choose later then which one you feel is more convenient.
Cheers.

--Work for the best of my blog, Service is always available when you need blog--

Wahaha. crapping.

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Change of new layout

Posted by Siew Lee at 6/05/2008 02:19:00 AM 0 comments
Yoyo!
Feel suprise when you log on to my blog?
Don't worry, it's still Siew Lee's blog.
I just changed my blog layout @ template, which took me around.... 5 hours.
From browsing through hundreds of nice template to the final decision of using which template,
this is the part which I really need more effort.
Then, I am a newbie in this HTML codes thing, so I slowly figure out how to add links and new navigation box and then paste those codes into my blog.
And.. the thing which turn me around was actually the Nuffnang ads.
'coz, when I preview the blog, it came out the error message, which frustrated me so much.
Then... okay la. Finally I know why this happened.
So, now, dear my friends/ blog readers,
Do you think this new layout is fine?
Or, you find it so difficult to blow water or stuff like this?
Drop comments and I will re-consider to change it or not. (based on what Jing Rong said)

Cheers.

p/s: so sad that this new post isn't really a "post". XD

Saturday, May 10, 2008

吃得苦中苦,方为人上人

Posted by Siew Lee at 5/10/2008 03:18:00 AM 0 comments
或许你会觉得这只是一句你在小学时常常读到的谚语,仰或它只是一句老人家常和你说的,也或许你根本听都没听过。

无论如何,真正去了解它的意思的人又有多少个?

直到今天,我才尝试去了解它背后所要带来的含义。

一直以来,我在工作时,我都是以一种学习新东西的态度去面对,所以都未曾有我很埋怨事情发生过。

今天,当我再次做回Exhibition的工作时,我才明白什么是工作。

是我选择了这份工,所以无论如何我一定要把它完成。

不能要求太多,因为毕竟工作就是这样,无公平与不公平之分。

就算要做一件你不愿意做的事,你还是得做。当然,你要不要show你的臭脸也是你的选择。

可是,既然是一份工,就应该拿出你的专业来。

管你肚子痛,头痛,牙痛,心痛还是什么的,都和别人无关。别有事没事就把气出在别人身上。

可是,知错能改是件好事。我们不是神,当然不可能时时刻刻都有着很好的脾气,所以做错了肯认错还是君子所为。

能吃苦,对于一般的打工族来说,是一个必备的条件。

如果你不能吃苦,还到处去complain那份工怎样怎样,那我劝你还是回家当你的大少爷或是少奶奶。

今天,我还差一点要过不了这一关。

还好,后来还是想通了。

何谓能吃苦?

你以为你随便出去打工,你就能称你自己能吃苦吗?

你只是踏出了不想被别人看小的第一步而已。

打工,还有分打什么工。

是站着的,还是坐着的。

是office工,还是retail工。当然,还有一些最难的FnB Line. (Restaurant and cafe)

工作量多还是少,工作的时间长还是短。

简单来说,打的那份工是轻或重。

我所认识的,大部分都是属于前者。

打个比方吧。

在一件买衣服的店打工,大部分工作时间是8小时,工作内容不外一些点货,服务性的工作。

在一些retail shop打工,于上面的例子差不多,只是要看那件店是忙不忙的,通常,如果不是旺季,员工大多只是聊聊天或排苍蝇而已。

如果你说,在这些店打工哪算轻啊,脚都酸死了。

那你比比看一下的这些例子。

在exhibition里打工,typist绝对不是最辛苦的那个。那些站在外面的usher才是最惨的。
做错事或给错info骂也是第一个骂usher。

如果做得不好,可是却有些人喜欢鸡蛋里面挑骨头,第一个中的也是usher.
那些visitor自己心情不好却都把气出在usher身上。

拜托!我们不是你们的沙包。

有时候要填form,有些项目是一定要填的,可是就是有些人不懂要赶去哪里酱,说什么为什么一定要填。

问我有鬼屁用啊,要问不会去问那个event organiser.

可是我们却只能,忍!

站一整天就不用说的啦。

有时候遇到的怪人还真多得没话说。

你大概没看过一些念书念得很厉害而且已经在工作的笨蛋,竟然不明白简单的问题,不会回答。

还有一些director脾气怪得你觉得自己好像疯子一样,因为他一句都不会答你,简直把你当空气,然后你就继续傻笑,干笑,像傻佬一样,非常的白痴。

那就更不用说他们的礼貌了。有些就好得非常好,可是要差就差得连我都想扫他两巴掌。

你觉得我举的例子不够“重”?

那看下面的。

在餐厅打工,工作时间8小时,工作内容,take order, serve, 看似简单,可是试过了才懂辛苦。

在一些像Starbucks的cafe打工的更累。除了要学泡饮料,要扫地抹地,还要会cashier,要时时清理客人留下的餐具,洗碗洗杯,晚上做closing时还要清理油槽,丢垃圾。

有时人手不够还要兼顾当waiter/waitress,自己很有可能是那个take order, do order,serve order还有洗碗的。很像一套似的。

如果有货到还要排货,最怕就是遇到忙的时候工作的地方却还没来得及整理好。

遇到一些特别fussy的客人还要忍气吞声,吭也不能吭半声,只能默默在背后骂。

如果客人不满意还要换过一杯饮料给他。一杯倒是没问题,但是却可能是5杯。

有时要打烊时客人才慢条斯理的要进来,不做他生意又不可以。



所以,你如果想称自己能吃苦,你先看一看其他人才说。别在那儿不够秤还要打肿脸皮充胖子。

连我自己都不敢称自己很能吃苦。

有感而发的一篇文章,如果有得罪任何大哥大姐,小妹我再此说一声抱歉。

Friday, May 9, 2008

钱可以慢慢赚,有些东西失去了就没有了

Posted by Siew Lee at 5/09/2008 05:12:00 AM 0 comments
虽然这句当时是在一个不太恰当的时候听到,但它还是让我有所感触。

很多时候,不一定是为了钱而让我们放弃或放下某些东西,有很多其他的因素也会让我们放弃我们所要的东西,比如说,学业,家庭,朋友及等等。

青春,在我这个年龄来说,应该就是我的本钱了吧。

试想想看,这个年纪的我,应该要怎么挥霍我的本钱呢?

整天呆在家里当宅女?

每天都在拼命的打工?

每天都出去“泡”?

晚上去Clubbing?

有事没事都去逛逛街?

还是当拜金女郎?

做败家二世祖?

当花花公子?

约朋友一起打机?

不管你的答案会是什么,反正我觉得,这个时候是我们都无所牵挂的时候,应该要做你自己喜欢做的东西。无忧无虑的生活,在当我们正式踏入社会时,它就会变成一个奢侈的代名词。

所以,朋友们,没有人可以勉强你做你不喜欢做的事情,可是如果那件事是你不做就会后悔的事,就算要杀了你,你也一定要做。

很多人应该都会说,我是个蛮犹豫不决的人。

其实,我只是,会花比较长的时间在决定一些事情。

我只想要,让自己有多一点的时间,在我还没有做出任何决定前。

我不过想让自己不后悔,不留遗憾。

所以就算结果会是在我想象的范围以外,我都不后悔,因为这是我的选择。

就算我想后悔,也无补于事了。

所以我想要乘我还年轻时,做一些年轻才能做的事。

像是,在校园拍拍拖,做一些疯狂的事,单身旅行,学学其它语言.....

我真的很想....

大胆的去爱一个人。

可是,爱神丘比特好像没有听到我在默默的祈祷。

灰姑娘

Posted by Siew Lee at 5/09/2008 03:21:00 AM 0 comments
忽然间, 想到了这个问题,

灰姑娘为什么会叫灰姑娘啊?

难道....

灰姑娘喜欢灰色?

XDXD



现实生活中,不是每个灰姑娘都可以有机会参加王子的舞会....


我不是公主,

所以我期望变成灰姑娘,

可是,

我会有这个机会参加王子的舞会吗?
 

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